The Ultimate Gemstone Wedding Anniversary Guide - Celebrate Love with Meaningful Jewellery

At Lapis London, we believe every love story deserves to be celebrated with beauty, meaning, and a touch of magic. Whether you’re commemorating your first year together or your golden fiftieth, gemstones offer a timeless way to mark each milestone. These natural treasures don’t just shimmer, they carry symbolism, energy, and deep emotional resonance.

Our guide below comprises the key wedding anniversaries and the gemstones associated with them, a perfect way to gift with intention and elegance.

 

1st AnniversaryGold / PeridotSymbolising prosperity, warmth and new beginnings. Though gold is the traditional metal, gifting a peridot-adorned gold piece blends classic and contemporary beautifully.  


sterling silver peridot August birthstone earrings

gold peridot August birthstone pendant necklaceThe Teardrop gold peridot August birthstone earrings


 

 

 

2nd AnniversaryGarnet - A deep red stone symbolising passion, protection and lasting commitment. It’s the perfect crystal to celebrate a love that’s beginning to deepen and mature.

garnet January birthstone necklace on gold chaingarnet gemstone braceletgold garnet January birthstone earrings

 

 

 

 

3rd Anniversary – Moonstone / Pearl - Moonstone represents emotional balance and intuition, perfect for growing connection. Pearls are believed to represent good fortune and wealth.

gold plated moonstone, citrine and tetrahedron star charm pendant charm necklace

 

 

 

4th Anniversary – Blue Topaz - Associated with clarity, communication and emotional harmony, it makes a stunning gift.

Blue Topaz Gold necklaceGold hoop earrings with square blue topaz gemstones

 

 

 

5th Anniversary – Sapphire - A gemstone that represents loyalty, trust and deepening love.

sapphire gemstone bracelet

6th Anniversary – Amethyst - A calming stone of wisdom, peace and inner strength.

Amethyst Strata necklaceAmethyst Gemstone Bracelet 6mmAmethyst The Orb Gold necklace

 

 

 

 

7th Anniversary – Onyx - Known for grounding and protecting relationships. A beautiful gemstone in both Green Onyx and Black Onyx.

silver black onyx rectangular pendant necklace

18 carat gold plated black onyx square charm hoop earrings

 

 

 

 

8th Anniversary – Tourmaline - Promotes love, emotional healing and resilience. Displaying both beautiful Black Tourmaline and Pink Tourmaline below.

gold and black tourmaline spike gemstone pendant necklace  

 

 

 

9th Anniversary – Lapis Lazuli - Symbolising truth, communication, wisdom and spiritual connection.

gold plated lapis lazuli square charm hoop earrings  lapis lazuli lucky clover necklace sterling silver lapis lazuli circular pendant necklace

 

 

 

10th Anniversary – Diamond / Clear Quartz A decade deserves sparkle, and diamond is the traditional gemstone for ten years of marriage, symbolising strength and clarity. For a more affordable contemporary or holistic twist, we love our Herkimer Diamond pieces and Clear Quartz offers powerful energy amplification and balance, as another stunning alternative.

gold herkimer diamond pendant necklace  Clear Quartz the orb gold necklacesilver clear quartz April birthstone earrings

 

 

 

11th Anniversary – TurquoiseA symbol of friendship, protection and open communication.

 sterling silver turquoise t-bar hoop earrings

 

 

 

12th Anniversary – Jade - Is associated with harmony, balance and good fortune.

jade gemstone bracelet

13th Anniversary – Citrine - Is associated with Joy, abundance and renewed energy.

gold citrine November birthstone necklacesilver citrine square charm hoop earrings

 

 

 

 

14th Anniversary – OpalIs associated with creativity, passion and emotional depth. It is also thought to calm nerves and a is a nurturing and compassionate stone.

 sterling silver blue opal October birthstone earrings gold opal square stud earrings


 

 

15th Anniversary – Ruby - The stone of passion, vitality and courage, marks 15 years of shared memories. Its vibrant red shade embodies the warmth and intensity of a long-lasting relationship.

Ruby July birthstone earrings  18ct gold plated ruby July birthstone necklace

 

 

 

 

16th Anniversary – Peridot - Known as the stone of friendship is associated with growth, harmony and happiness

The Nuget gold peridot August birthstone necklace  silver peridot August birthstone pendant necklace

 

 

 

17th Anniversary – Carnelian Is associated with confidence, motivation, emotional balance and vitality.

carnelian gemstone bracelet

18th Anniversary – Tiger's Eye - Is a stone associated with protection, intuition and positive transformation.

 Aquamarine Duo

 

 

 

19th Anniversary – AquamarineIs associated with calm, clear communication and emotional strength.

Sterling silver aquamarine March birthstone necklace  gold aquamarine March birthstone pendant necklace  sterling silver aquamarine pendant necklace

 

 

 

 

Major Milestone Anniversaries

20th Anniversary – Emerald A symbol of renewal and growth, Emerald celebrates two decades of love, challenges overcome, and dreams realised. Its lush green tones reflect harmony, renewal and a deep-rooted connection.

emerald circular pendant necklace  Emerald bracelet  The Teardrop  gold emerald May birthstone necklace  Emerald The Square Earrings

 

 

 

25th Anniversary   Silver - Representing a love that is radiant, strong, and lasting. 

The Lapis London Statement Necklace

30th AnniversaryPearlThirty years calls for timeless elegance. Pearls, with their soft lustre, symbolise wisdom gained through experience, serenity and make a graceful, classic statement. Mother or Pearl is also associated with this anniversary and is linked to wisdom, perseverance and good luck.

sterling silver mother of pearl clover necklace

35th Anniversary  – Jade - Is associated with harmony, balance and good fortune.

jade gemstone bracelet

40th Anniversary  – RubyTo celebrate love and devotion. Ruby returns as the gemstone for 40 years – a second celebration of enduring passion and commitment.

 

gold ruby July birthstone necklace

45th Anniversary – Sapphire - Is associated with deep loyalty and strength in love.

sapphire gemstone bracelet 

50th Anniversary – Gold  - Symbolises abundance and success the perfect match for five decades of partnership.

18 carat gold plated sterling silver Lapis London octagonal disc and tetrahedron star pendant necklace

 

 

 

 

55th Anniversary – Emerald - Is a symbol of renewal, growth and enduring affection.

 

silver emerald May birthstone necklaceThe Teardrop  gold emerald May birthstone necklace

sterling silver Emerald May birthstone earrings


 

 

 

60th Anniversary  – Diamond - A tribute to lifelong strength, clarity and commitment.

gold herkimer diamond pendant necklacesterling silver herkimer diamond pendant necklace

 

 

 

 

Celebrate with sparkle and explore our gemstone jewellery collection at www.lapislondon.com, and mark every milestone with meaning.